About Me

am a Dom living in the Rochester NY area.

I'm a "Daddy"-type dominant and equal-opportunity sadist who is interested in most aspects of the BDSM lifestyle and power exchange relationships in all their great variety. A "Daddy" is a nurturing leader first and foremost - I think Daddy as a verb rather than a noun. I believe that a Daddy Dom is a nurturing figure, one whose role is to care for his partner, and help her to grow in happiness and confidence.

I've been active in the kink world since the early 2000s. My Dom side first asserted itself about that time. I have evolved with the help of some wonderful partners over that time, but was always at odds with my nice guy, helpful and protective personality, because I feel a great desire to dominate in a nurturing way.

I'm fascinated by the many paradoxes of the Lifestyle, particular that almost nothing is, in fact, exactly what it looks like on the surface, and I'm drawn to the complexity and depth that the Lifestyle represents. I also appreciate the importance of self-knowledge and personal honor.

Last and not at all least, I also adore cries and moans of pleasure/pain and all things involved in creating those sounds. I will happily beat or tie-up, or tie-up and beat, pretty much anyone who will let me do so; however, I also believe that the most satisfying experiences are rooted in the emotional and spiritual connections that partners share.

A little about my vanilla life. When I'm not working I enjoy reading, listening to music, being outdoors and traveling.

I'm looking for someone to share this amazing ride with me.