Slave TheyValentine

I'm 35, AMAB, and am nonbinary. I present as both male and female, or anything in between, it depends on how I'm feeling, and various other factors. I'm on here to find like minded people, friends, maybe do some events or play here and there,

I fully know what I want, and I've been most happy in a monogamous relationship, with other enby's, women, and trans men (I've never been in a relationship with a cis man, and after a lot of bad experiences, tend to be extremely wary, to completely avoidant anymore, but I always try to give folks the benefit of the doubt.

I'm into a lot, but namely, COSPLAY. I LOVE cosplay. It's my passion. If I were to pick a dream job, it'd be making props and costumes. It really brings me joy, and being into it is something that I'd want in a partner eventually, a lot of my life revolves around that.

If it isn't obvious, I'm a huge geek/nerd, always have been. I LOVE anime, manga, gaming, going to cons
I game on PC btw :3

I love all sorts of music, but recent faves have been stuff like sueco, witchhouse 40k, and adjacent music. On the other side, I like pretty much everything musically, besides a lot of country, and most pop music. Used to play multiple instruments, but fell off over the years. I LOVE singing, unfortunately for me my voice is male, and that's how I trained to sing, I used to be in a few bands back in my day, and have done a probably excessive amount of karaoke in my years. I also ran it for a few years as a side gig, dj-ing and running karaoke/trivia. I don't do that anymore due to a number of things, but namely because I don't drink.

As for kink, I'm very open minded, and always looking to explore. I have over 17 years interest and actual experience, mostly as a switchy sub, I worked as a Pro Domme for a while, but I kinda grew out of that, and it became more work than fun. I'm definitely on the subby side.

I've had dynamics where me switching once in a while worked out okay, but it's definitely got to be correct chemistry. I doubt I'd domme someone if just playing or doing a scene, but would for a consistent partner or play partner. I have a plethora of kinks, some common BDSM "standards", your run of the mill "rough" things, and some others are more unique.

Kinks:
-heavy bondage (receiving)
-sensory deprivation(receiving)
-breath play(receiving)
-food play (mostly receiving. It's specific to bread/sandwiches, I don't play with any other foods)
-watersports (love em, they're fun)
-spanking/paddling/flogging/whipping (receiving, but mostly just on my butt)
-nipple play (receiving)

Limits:
-scat
-anything illegal
-inc3st or similar role play
-anything that draws blood or leaves a visible or permanent mark
-extreme pain
-face slapping
-cuckolding (even roleplay)

My DMs are open to anyone polite - use common sense and common decency. Just because I'm mostly submissive, doesn't mean I don't deserve respect. Give and ye shall receive!