Slave enslavepaul

Older male seeks to explore his submissive side ... not too experienced but know enough to want to take this path with open minded curiosity.


I am looking for something that will have a continuity and growth to it, preferably over the long term, that will encourage my submission to deepen. I certainly have a great attraction in wanting to explore the psychological and spiritual dimensions of submission - attracted to ideas of sacred sex, pain as a spiritual path, ritual pain, tantra and male submission, spiritual domination and submission etc. Within this there us an attraction to explore chastity through the use of a chastity device.

I am not concerned about experience as I believe it is something we can develop together. - though experience would be nice. To me, the connection that we have is more important - that it is not a mechanical kink that seeks to just satisfy the physical, but it is an emotional, psychological and spiritual journey and unity as my ego surrenders to another.

I am open minded, am drawn to ritual and protocol, to the use of a chastity device, a sense of living under the control of another - though not necessarily in a micro-management manner - and being in service to them. I like the sense of an encompassing control surrounding me and being in service.

I don't have a bucket list of must do to me kinks - the dynamic of the power transfer is more important to me. I am open minded though and am happy to explore many a dark hole. I like the power transfer and as such believe in my owner training me in the kinks that they desire from me

By nature, I am quiet and contemplative, a gentleman and seek to surrender rather than top from the bottom.